Thursday, March 1, 2012

dealing

life is unexpected. it throw lots of curveballs. often, things don't go my way and I'm frustrated with situations out of my control. I'm trying to get back to a place of surrender and peace. Knowing that God's way and truth are what makes me whole.

I'm finding that I often deal with my issues by creating more issues or a distraction. I know its not healthy but me checking out is a coping mechanism I've developed. I didn't get to it overnight and I know I will deal with it, slowly. Giving myself lag room is important. Being 25 is important. Making mistakes is a natural part of the process. I don't have to over think or analyze - just enjoy. I have to recognize how certain situations and relationships affect me. Usually cause me to do something to forget the pain. I get bored and that's when I do something stupid. I'm working towards loving me and giving myself increments in which to let loose. Reaching out is a tool I need to use more of too. I will get back to liking me and accepting what is. Making the most of what I've been given and asking what can I give back.

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